Kalo ditanya rasanya...
Sedih...
palagi kalo denger cerita sesama yang senasib
bahkan lebih sedih...
Allah... inikah ujian bagi kami...
Sabar, ikhlas, bersyukur...
itu kah yang harus kami pupuk?
Allah .. tolonglah kami, tuntunlah kami...
Agar kami tidak menjadi kufur dan berputus asa...
Bukankah Allah tidak akan menguji umatnya melebihi kemampuanNya...
So, kami pasti bisaa!!...
Semangattt!!!
Amiin
Showing posts with label friend. Show all posts
Showing posts with label friend. Show all posts
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Saturday, January 31, 2009
Wise quotes
Below are some of wise quotes which are sent by my friend through YM ..
How kind he is... I think every day he always search/create wise words and sent it to all of his friends no matter their friend is online or offline...
Almost of his words affect me... Either he realize or not his words give me more motivation and encourage...
His name is Nitin. He is from India.. I forget when and where I know him.. Maybe through Orkut.com or Meebo IRC..
And now, I want to share his words for you friends.. just some..
Wed Sep 10 2008
The Hardest moments are not those when tears flow from ur eyes, it's when u have to hide the tears in ur eyes with a smile to remove tears from someone else's eyes.
Wed Sep 17 2008
Life is a gift given by the God to us.Life is like a diamond which makes us beautifuland feel how much precious we are.So fill your life with full of colours.Don't waste it or spoil it.Because God will never give you a second chance.
Fri Sep 19 2008
No smile is more beautiful than the one that struggles through tears
have you ever been through this .. I have been..
Mon Sep 22 2008
Its often difficult to wait for God's time. The waiting period often brings us pain & confusion. But its always worth to trust fully. Wait on God even if He seems silent because when His plan is revealed, we'll surely thank Him 4 being right on time.
Wed Sep 24 2008
dont give others a chance to spoil your day..ure the master of your own choices..the decisions you make today will make your tommorrow..so take control of the steering..long road ahead..and remember [im ride it all night long...:)]
Mon Sep 29 2008
Your life today is the result ofyour attitudes and choices in the past.Your life tomorrow will be the result ofyour attitudes and the choices you make today.
It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all the doubt.
Mon Oct 6 2008
your first step is all that it takes to reach success. It shows your faith in your dreams. It shows you belief in yourself. It shows you have courage to move ahead.
Tue Oct 7 2008
A mans greatest strength develops at the point when he overcomes his greatest weekness
Wed Oct 8 2008
I always wanted a perfect ending.Now I've learned, the hard way.Some poems don't rhyme.Some stories don't havea clear beginning, middle, or an end.Life is about - not knowing, having to change,taking the moment and making the best of itwithout knowing what's going to happen next.
Fri Oct 10 2008
There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters,who never did,who won't anymore...and who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.'Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.'
Tue Oct 14 2008
Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled,and ground into the dirt by the decisions we makeand the circumstances that come our way.We feel as though we are worthless.But no matter what has happened or what will happen,you will never lose your value.You are special.Don't ever forget it!
Wed Oct 15 2008
each one of us, on this earth has the ability to lead and inspire...................sometimes our work feels small and insignificant...............Remember, a small ripple can gain momentum and build a current that is insurmountable...................begin with one small step..Dont let others stand in you way...walk your own path.....some will laugh.So what...many will follow..Dont ever Give up...NEVER...............Never Run away from your fears..run towards them..
Thu Oct 23 2008
Reading furnishes the mind only with materials of knowledge; it is thinking that makes what we read ours.
The illiterate of the future will not be the person who cannot read. It will be the person who does not know how to learn.
“The higher we soar, the smaller we appear to those who cannot fly.”
Mon Nov 3 2008
Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving
Thu Nov 6 2008
I am sharing with you what i have realised today. I have been seeing this last 1 year, but realised its importance today: "THE GREATEST ENEMY TO HUMAN POTENTIAL IS YOUR COMFORT ZONE"
Tue Nov 18 2008
The world sometimes feel so lonely..like its standing still..feel like we've succumbed down to the flow of time..u feel like life is a stranger to you..your dreams distancing themselves from youself..theres darkness even on the lit streets..total disappointment everywhere....BUT..Its me and only me who can take control of my life..Its me who can only stand for myself..stand on the rocks of sadness..and make myself smile and laugh today..this is the truth and i will accept it today..Can you?
Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so…"Love the people who treat you right. Forgive the ones who don't."Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent how you take it!
Tue Jan 6 2009
It is not because things are difficult, that we do not dare.It is because we do not dare, they seem difficult to us.Dare to take on your difficulties.Once conquered, you will ask only for more.
Wed Jan 14 2009
Do what you want,
“No, it can’t be done,” said people to a man named Thomas, as he kept on failing at his experiment. Had he given up, today we would be still living in the dark. He failed for a thousand times until finally he made a bulb that could glow. And what did our hero Thomas Alva Edison have to say? He said he had learned 1000 ways that did not work until he found the right technique.Often we do not try for fear of losing, but even if we lose, aren’t we winning? Winning experience, winning friends, and winning sympathy.
Fri Jan 16 2009
Don't say that you should have not existed.Without you, there will be a hole in creation.A missing life to those in your family.A missing friend to those around you.A missing role in this world.Treasure your uniqueness. It is a gift given only to you.Play your role in life.
Mon Jan 26 2009
The greatest danger for most of usis not that our aim is too high, and we miss it.But that our aim is too low, and we reach it
etc...
Thanks Nitin Anand
How kind he is... I think every day he always search/create wise words and sent it to all of his friends no matter their friend is online or offline...
Almost of his words affect me... Either he realize or not his words give me more motivation and encourage...
His name is Nitin. He is from India.. I forget when and where I know him.. Maybe through Orkut.com or Meebo IRC..
And now, I want to share his words for you friends.. just some..
Wed Sep 10 2008
The Hardest moments are not those when tears flow from ur eyes, it's when u have to hide the tears in ur eyes with a smile to remove tears from someone else's eyes.
Wed Sep 17 2008
Life is a gift given by the God to us.Life is like a diamond which makes us beautifuland feel how much precious we are.So fill your life with full of colours.Don't waste it or spoil it.Because God will never give you a second chance.
Fri Sep 19 2008
No smile is more beautiful than the one that struggles through tears
have you ever been through this .. I have been..
Mon Sep 22 2008
Its often difficult to wait for God's time. The waiting period often brings us pain & confusion. But its always worth to trust fully. Wait on God even if He seems silent because when His plan is revealed, we'll surely thank Him 4 being right on time.
Wed Sep 24 2008
dont give others a chance to spoil your day..ure the master of your own choices..the decisions you make today will make your tommorrow..so take control of the steering..long road ahead..and remember [im ride it all night long...:)]
Mon Sep 29 2008
Your life today is the result ofyour attitudes and choices in the past.Your life tomorrow will be the result ofyour attitudes and the choices you make today.
It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all the doubt.
Mon Oct 6 2008
your first step is all that it takes to reach success. It shows your faith in your dreams. It shows you belief in yourself. It shows you have courage to move ahead.
Tue Oct 7 2008
A mans greatest strength develops at the point when he overcomes his greatest weekness
Wed Oct 8 2008
I always wanted a perfect ending.Now I've learned, the hard way.Some poems don't rhyme.Some stories don't havea clear beginning, middle, or an end.Life is about - not knowing, having to change,taking the moment and making the best of itwithout knowing what's going to happen next.
Fri Oct 10 2008
There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters,who never did,who won't anymore...and who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.'Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.'
Tue Oct 14 2008
Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled,and ground into the dirt by the decisions we makeand the circumstances that come our way.We feel as though we are worthless.But no matter what has happened or what will happen,you will never lose your value.You are special.Don't ever forget it!
Wed Oct 15 2008
each one of us, on this earth has the ability to lead and inspire...................sometimes our work feels small and insignificant...............Remember, a small ripple can gain momentum and build a current that is insurmountable...................begin with one small step..Dont let others stand in you way...walk your own path.....some will laugh.So what...many will follow..Dont ever Give up...NEVER...............Never Run away from your fears..run towards them..
Thu Oct 23 2008
Reading furnishes the mind only with materials of knowledge; it is thinking that makes what we read ours.
The illiterate of the future will not be the person who cannot read. It will be the person who does not know how to learn.
“The higher we soar, the smaller we appear to those who cannot fly.”
Mon Nov 3 2008
Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving
Thu Nov 6 2008
I am sharing with you what i have realised today. I have been seeing this last 1 year, but realised its importance today: "THE GREATEST ENEMY TO HUMAN POTENTIAL IS YOUR COMFORT ZONE"
Tue Nov 18 2008
The world sometimes feel so lonely..like its standing still..feel like we've succumbed down to the flow of time..u feel like life is a stranger to you..your dreams distancing themselves from youself..theres darkness even on the lit streets..total disappointment everywhere....BUT..Its me and only me who can take control of my life..Its me who can only stand for myself..stand on the rocks of sadness..and make myself smile and laugh today..this is the truth and i will accept it today..Can you?
Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so…"Love the people who treat you right. Forgive the ones who don't."Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent how you take it!
Tue Jan 6 2009
It is not because things are difficult, that we do not dare.It is because we do not dare, they seem difficult to us.Dare to take on your difficulties.Once conquered, you will ask only for more.
Wed Jan 14 2009
Do what you want,
“No, it can’t be done,” said people to a man named Thomas, as he kept on failing at his experiment. Had he given up, today we would be still living in the dark. He failed for a thousand times until finally he made a bulb that could glow. And what did our hero Thomas Alva Edison have to say? He said he had learned 1000 ways that did not work until he found the right technique.Often we do not try for fear of losing, but even if we lose, aren’t we winning? Winning experience, winning friends, and winning sympathy.
Fri Jan 16 2009
Don't say that you should have not existed.Without you, there will be a hole in creation.A missing life to those in your family.A missing friend to those around you.A missing role in this world.Treasure your uniqueness. It is a gift given only to you.Play your role in life.
Mon Jan 26 2009
The greatest danger for most of usis not that our aim is too high, and we miss it.But that our aim is too low, and we reach it
etc...
Thanks Nitin Anand
Sunday, November 2, 2008
The Past
I really hate when people talking about someone bad past...
Don't you know, if it make them feel so sad and force them to make that bad memories lie on their mind even just for a second...
when they had and still try with hard to forget that... Yeah I know that are the consequences that they must faced it...
but....
Gk suka..
Bersykur aku punya sahabat2 yang tidak seperti itu...
Saat ada seseorang dari kami yang dah lama hilang dari kehidupan kami. Kemudian dia tiba2 datang. Kami sepakat untuk menahan diri untuk bahkan sekedar tahu kelanjutan dari hal buruk yang dia alami di masa lalu. Apakah dia benar2 sudah menjauhi hal buruk tersebut, atau masih berada di dalamnya..
Kami tidak perduli, yang penting dia sudah mau gabung lagi sama kita2...
Love you my friends...
Don't you know, if it make them feel so sad and force them to make that bad memories lie on their mind even just for a second...
when they had and still try with hard to forget that... Yeah I know that are the consequences that they must faced it...
but....
Gk suka..
Bersykur aku punya sahabat2 yang tidak seperti itu...
Saat ada seseorang dari kami yang dah lama hilang dari kehidupan kami. Kemudian dia tiba2 datang. Kami sepakat untuk menahan diri untuk bahkan sekedar tahu kelanjutan dari hal buruk yang dia alami di masa lalu. Apakah dia benar2 sudah menjauhi hal buruk tersebut, atau masih berada di dalamnya..
Kami tidak perduli, yang penting dia sudah mau gabung lagi sama kita2...
Love you my friends...
Saturday, October 18, 2008
just a little pic from my high school
ceritanya ada halal bihalal hari ini di smun61... tapi ternyata dari angkatanku yg dateng cuman seiprit...
terus karena waktunya singkat cuman bisa moto2 dikit...
~ just a little bit miss my high school era.....
Thursday, October 9, 2008
obrolah malam ini...
Bismillah...
ya selain ngobrolin tentang rencana masa depan sohibku itu (prev posting) dia juga nanya tentang kondisiku saat ini... ada masalah or something...
utk masalah pribadi, ya karena aku dah nyeritain ke sohibku yang satunya lagi (pihak cewek) jadi yaa... gk usah dibahas lagi...
soal kerjaan, aku bilang, saat ini lagi fokus mikirin mau coba2 aja pns and beasiswa...daripada mikirin yang nggak2...
Terus dia bilang, "kalo pns gw setuju, tapi kalo beasiswa... yaah ntar tambah lama dong lo nikahnya??"
Me: "Hee?? Yah selama lagi gk nunggu siapa2.. coba aja dulu lah... let it flow aja..."
dia: "hehe"
Hehe... emang kuliah lagi, bisa menghambat bertemunya jodoh ya???
jodoh si bakal ketemu dimana aja bukan?? mau aku pergi ke benua antartika kek... kalo emang Allah dah nentuin jodohku siapa, ya pasti akan dipertemukan ... deket2 belum tentu berjodoh juga bukan??
yang penting udah usaha dan berdoa.... betul begitu??
~my last effort
ya selain ngobrolin tentang rencana masa depan sohibku itu (prev posting) dia juga nanya tentang kondisiku saat ini... ada masalah or something...
utk masalah pribadi, ya karena aku dah nyeritain ke sohibku yang satunya lagi (pihak cewek) jadi yaa... gk usah dibahas lagi...
soal kerjaan, aku bilang, saat ini lagi fokus mikirin mau coba2 aja pns and beasiswa...daripada mikirin yang nggak2...
Terus dia bilang, "kalo pns gw setuju, tapi kalo beasiswa... yaah ntar tambah lama dong lo nikahnya??"
Me: "Hee?? Yah selama lagi gk nunggu siapa2.. coba aja dulu lah... let it flow aja..."
dia: "hehe"
Hehe... emang kuliah lagi, bisa menghambat bertemunya jodoh ya???
jodoh si bakal ketemu dimana aja bukan?? mau aku pergi ke benua antartika kek... kalo emang Allah dah nentuin jodohku siapa, ya pasti akan dipertemukan ... deket2 belum tentu berjodoh juga bukan??
yang penting udah usaha dan berdoa.... betul begitu??
~my last effort
Ke2 sahabatku...
Ke2 Sahabatku...
tak disangka,tak diduga kalian bersama lagi...
Ah... ke2 sahabatku,tak sabarlah aku menunggu kalian bersanding d pelaminan...
cepatlah..
doaku utk kalian...
hehe...abis ngobrol dr sahabatku pihak cowok,yg minta pendapatku kpan sebaikny mereka menikah...
sebelum atau sesudah lebaran haji tahun depan..
ya krn cuma ada 2 pilihan,y aku blg sebelum lha...
lebih cepat lebih baik...
benar2 brharap mereka benar2 berjodoh...
tak disangka,tak diduga kalian bersama lagi...
Ah... ke2 sahabatku,tak sabarlah aku menunggu kalian bersanding d pelaminan...
cepatlah..
doaku utk kalian...
hehe...abis ngobrol dr sahabatku pihak cowok,yg minta pendapatku kpan sebaikny mereka menikah...
sebelum atau sesudah lebaran haji tahun depan..
ya krn cuma ada 2 pilihan,y aku blg sebelum lha...
lebih cepat lebih baik...
benar2 brharap mereka benar2 berjodoh...
Saturday, June 28, 2008
aduh aduh....
"Aduuh tya... kapan si lo gak sibuk??
Kapan nih kita bisa ngumpul??"
"Padet banget si jadwalnya..."
huhu... minnasan, gomen........
Kapan nih kita bisa ngumpul??"
"Padet banget si jadwalnya..."
huhu... minnasan, gomen........
Saturday, February 23, 2008
An Inspiring friend
Ini cerita tentang salah satu teman baikku...
Cerita yang sangat menginspirasi aku...
Jadi dia adalah seorang anak sulung yang tinggal bersama ayahnya yang sudah pensiun, ibu dan 2 orang adik...
Aku baru kenal dekat dengan dia 1 tahun ini... Sebelumnya sudah kenal, tapi selama 1 tahun ini aku semakin tahu banyak hal tentang dia...
Hmm sudah sekitar 2 atau 3 tahun ya dia kerja...
dan sebagian besar penghasilan yang dia miliki didekasikan untuk keluarganya... bisa dibilang untuk menjaga "dapur agar tetap ngebul"
Selain itu kedua adiknya pun dibiayai sekolahnya...
adik pertama, dikuliahkan ekstensi
adik kedua masih SMA...
So, sebagian besar penghasilannya benar2 untuk keluarga yang sangat dicintainya...
Mungkin kalau dari gaji dia saja belum cukup. Oleh karena itu dia mengambil pekerjaan lepas lainnya untuk lebih mencukupi kebutuhan keluarganya....
Jadi, seringkali selepas kerja dari kantor dia tidak langsung pulang, tapi menginap ke tempat temannya untuk mengerjakan pekerjaan sampingan itu... Dan itu bisa dia kerjakan hingga pagi...
Hmm bisa dibilang hampir seharian hari2nya diisi dengan bekerja dan bekerja....
Demi memikirkan kesejahteraan orang tua dan adik2nya..
Dia bilang, ingin supaya adik2nya tetap terus melanjutkan sekolahnya...
Bahkan untuk urusan "masa depan" nya pun dia belum terlalu memikirkan..
Bukan gk memikirkan... Dia pernah berkata, "Aku pengen si secepatnya, tapi masih ragu sama kondisi keluarga dan keuangan"
Intinya dia sampai sekarang belum bisa menabung untuk kepentingan masa depannya ...
Sedihkah dia??
Sampai sekarang yang aku lihat adalah semangatnya, dan besarnya rasa cinta untuk keluarganya...
Bahkan dalam suatu percakpan aku pernah bilang ke dia:
"mudah2an apa yang di lakukan buat keluarga mendapat balasan yang setimpal ya...mudah2an semuanya dimudahkan..."
dan dia menjawab: "yang penting buat aku, keluarga masih bisa berkembang dan sehat"..
Sampai sekarang aku belum pernah menemukan kata-kata dia yang menunjukkan keluhan atas sebegitu besarnya tanggung jawab yang harus dia tanggung.....
Yah itulah dia...
Terkadang dikala aku sedang bingung, dengan mengingat cerita dia aku kembali semangat..."Hei...lihat!! dia saja masih bisa terus semangat!! Masa aku yang diberi ujian segini aja sudah mengeluh.. Bersyukurlah!!"
Doaku, semoga Allah selalu memudahkan jalan untuknya dan mudah2an dia diberi stempel oleh Allah sebagai anak yang berbakti pada orangtua...sehingga memudahkan jalannya dalam menuju kebahagiaan hakiki... Amiiin ya rabbal 'alamiin
Cerita yang sangat menginspirasi aku...
Jadi dia adalah seorang anak sulung yang tinggal bersama ayahnya yang sudah pensiun, ibu dan 2 orang adik...
Aku baru kenal dekat dengan dia 1 tahun ini... Sebelumnya sudah kenal, tapi selama 1 tahun ini aku semakin tahu banyak hal tentang dia...
Hmm sudah sekitar 2 atau 3 tahun ya dia kerja...
dan sebagian besar penghasilan yang dia miliki didekasikan untuk keluarganya... bisa dibilang untuk menjaga "dapur agar tetap ngebul"
Selain itu kedua adiknya pun dibiayai sekolahnya...
adik pertama, dikuliahkan ekstensi
adik kedua masih SMA...
So, sebagian besar penghasilannya benar2 untuk keluarga yang sangat dicintainya...
Mungkin kalau dari gaji dia saja belum cukup. Oleh karena itu dia mengambil pekerjaan lepas lainnya untuk lebih mencukupi kebutuhan keluarganya....
Jadi, seringkali selepas kerja dari kantor dia tidak langsung pulang, tapi menginap ke tempat temannya untuk mengerjakan pekerjaan sampingan itu... Dan itu bisa dia kerjakan hingga pagi...
Hmm bisa dibilang hampir seharian hari2nya diisi dengan bekerja dan bekerja....
Demi memikirkan kesejahteraan orang tua dan adik2nya..
Dia bilang, ingin supaya adik2nya tetap terus melanjutkan sekolahnya...
Bahkan untuk urusan "masa depan" nya pun dia belum terlalu memikirkan..
Bukan gk memikirkan... Dia pernah berkata, "Aku pengen si secepatnya, tapi masih ragu sama kondisi keluarga dan keuangan"
Intinya dia sampai sekarang belum bisa menabung untuk kepentingan masa depannya ...
Sedihkah dia??
Sampai sekarang yang aku lihat adalah semangatnya, dan besarnya rasa cinta untuk keluarganya...
Bahkan dalam suatu percakpan aku pernah bilang ke dia:
"mudah2an apa yang di lakukan buat keluarga mendapat balasan yang setimpal ya...mudah2an semuanya dimudahkan..."
dan dia menjawab: "yang penting buat aku, keluarga masih bisa berkembang dan sehat"..
Sampai sekarang aku belum pernah menemukan kata-kata dia yang menunjukkan keluhan atas sebegitu besarnya tanggung jawab yang harus dia tanggung.....
Yah itulah dia...
Terkadang dikala aku sedang bingung, dengan mengingat cerita dia aku kembali semangat..."Hei...lihat!! dia saja masih bisa terus semangat!! Masa aku yang diberi ujian segini aja sudah mengeluh.. Bersyukurlah!!"
Doaku, semoga Allah selalu memudahkan jalan untuknya dan mudah2an dia diberi stempel oleh Allah sebagai anak yang berbakti pada orangtua...sehingga memudahkan jalannya dalam menuju kebahagiaan hakiki... Amiiin ya rabbal 'alamiin
Sunday, December 9, 2007
special for my bestfriends
special for dee2, Iie and Ti2n.....
hmmm juga buat ira, teddy, arna, vine, dll yang nggak dateng.....
mereka ini 3 dari beberapa sahabatku sejak SMA...
kita sahabatan dari sejak kelas 1 SMA...ampe sekarang.....
love you friends
-diambil pas nikahan kakaknya dee2..
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